There are a lot of men who think as if they are doing a woman a favour by asking for their hand in marriage. But if we think about it after marriage, she changes her name, changes her home, and leaves her family to be with her man. She moves in with her husband and builds a home with her husband. Gets pregnant, bears a child, and she almost gives up in the delivery room due to the extreme amount of pain she goes through at that moment. Even the kids she delivers bear the husband’s name. So it can’t be a man always doing a favour on woman. Marriage isn’t about happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, happiness will come. Happiness is not short-term. It is a feeling still. How much, how often, how sustained and how maintained are all what make it’s differentiated. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of th...